Eloping is for some people - but if you've already starting the planning, and it's just the stress that's starting to bother you- first determine what that stressor is, and face it. Determine why it's bothering you and what you can do about it.
Is it money?
Is your guest list out of control?
Is your family driving you crazy?
Are you over loaded on ideas?
Once you know the source of your panic you can deal with it. Let's say it is your budget - money is always the main stessor. Maybe it's time to scale back your guest list, or limit the flowers that are being imported from Brazil. There are always items that can be limited. Maybe your bar can be a limited bar rather than a full open bar...
But first you need to determine that the stressor is, then we can deal with it and make it all better!
What is or was the main stessor for you?
I think the title of your post says it all.
ReplyDeleteSo often I have seen a shift in the relationship of a couple as they plan a wedding. At the beginning, the relationship is at a high point - they have just had one of the most memorable moments, something that neither will forget - their engagement.
Over the next several months there is an attention shift - away from each other and toward the wedding event. They realize that they will be able to focus on each other again after the wedding. What's the easiest way to get married? Elope, of course!
Don't forget your priorities, and let other things get in the way!
Cheers,
the überBrides Team
www.uberbrides.com